We live in a world that often whispers lies.  One of the most insidious is that success is some far-off, unattainable dream reserved for a select few.  Maybe you’ve heard it yourself: “You’re not good enough,” “You don’t have the resources,” “It’s too late for you.”  These are lies, my friend.  They are designed to keep you stuck, to paralyze you with fear and doubt.  Today, I want to dismantle those lies and remind you of a powerful truth: Success is possible for you, and God is an integral part of that journey.

1. Identifying the Lies:

The first step to overcoming these lies is to recognize them.  What negative thoughts are swirling around in your mind?  Are you telling yourself you’re not smart enough, creative enough, or disciplined enough?  Do you believe you’re destined for mediocrity?  Write these thoughts down.  Bringing them into the light is the first step to disempowering them.

2. Replacing Lies with Truth:

Once you’ve identified the lies, replace them with truth.  For every negative thought, find a counter-truth.  For example, if you think “I’m not smart enough,” counter it with “I am capable of learning and growing. I have unique talents and strengths.”  If you think “I don’t have the resources,” counter it with “I can be resourceful and find creative solutions. I can ask for help.”  Write these truths down and repeat them to yourself daily.  Affirmations are powerful tools for rewiring your thinking.    

3. Defining Success on Your Terms:

The world often defines success in narrow terms: wealth, fame, a corner office.  But true success is much more personal and nuanced.  What does success look like for you?  Is it building a strong family?  Is it making a difference in your community?  Is it pursuing a passion?  Define success on your own terms, based on your values and aspirations.  This will give you a clear target to aim for and make the journey more meaningful.

4. Taking Action, One Step at a Time:

Dreaming is important, but it’s not enough.  Success requires action.  Don’t feel overwhelmed by the enormity of your goals.  Break them down into smaller, manageable steps.  What’s one small thing you can do today to move closer to your goal?  Maybe it’s researching a topic, making a phone call, or practicing a skill.  Consistent, small steps will eventually lead to significant progress.

5. The Indispensable Role of God:

This is crucial:  Don’t forget the role of God in all of this.  You are not alone on this journey.  God is your constant companion, your source of strength, and your biggest cheerleader.  Lean on Him for guidance, courage, and perseverance.  Pray for wisdom and discernment.  Trust in His plan for your life.  Remember the verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).  This isn’t just a nice sentiment; it’s a promise.

6. Embracing the Journey, Not Just the Destination:

The path to success is rarely a straight line.  There will be setbacks, challenges, and moments of doubt.  Don’t let these discourage you.  Embrace the journey, learn from your mistakes, and keep moving forward.  Remember that growth often happens in the difficult times.  And through it all, trust that God is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28).

7. Celebrate Your Wins:

Don’t forget to celebrate your victories, no matter how small.  Acknowledging your progress will keep you motivated and remind you of how far you’ve come.  Share your successes with others, and let them celebrate with you.

Conclusion:

My friend, don’t accept the lie that success is beyond your reach.  You have unique talents, strengths, and a God who believes in you.  Define success on your own terms, replace negative thoughts with truth, take consistent action, and lean on God for guidance and strength.  The journey won’t always be easy, but it will be worth it.  Embrace the process, celebrate your wins, and never give up on your dreams.  Success is possible.  Believe it.  Live it.  And let God guide you every step of the way.

OYIBU COLLINS

CEO, COGITAL