Don’t Accept That Lie: Success Is Possible, My Friend
Hey my friend, let’s talk about something really important today – the lies we tell ourselves, and the lies the world tries to feed us with, about success. There’s a pervasive myth out there, a sneaky whisper that creeps into our minds and settles in like a fog, telling us that success is only for a select few, that it is a distant, unattainable dream, that you don’t have the resources, that it is too late for you, or that it requires some magical combination of luck and privilege that we just don’t possess. I’m here to tell you, right now, to reject that lie! Success is possible for you. It’s within your reach. But first, we have to dismantle the lies that are holding us back.
Lie #1: Success is a game of chance.
This lie tells us that success is purely a matter of chance, being in the right place at the right time. While luck can play a small role, it’s not the defining factor. Think about it: have you ever seen someone win the lottery without buying a ticket? No! You have to be in the game to win. Similarly, you have to actively pursue your goals, work hard, and persevere to achieve success. It’s not about waiting for lightning to strike; it’s about creating your own lightning.
Lie #2: Success is only for the gifted.
This lie whispers that only those with exceptional talent or innate abilities can achieve great things. While some people might have a natural inclination towards certain areas, talent alone isn’t enough. Think of any skill you admire – a musician, an athlete, a writer. Their talent is only a small part of their success story. Behind the scenes, there are countless hours of practice, dedication, and overcoming setbacks. It is the consistent effort, the grit, that truly unlocks potential and leads to mastery. You might not be the most naturally gifted, but you can outwork and outlearn those who rely solely on talent.
Lie #3: Success requires instant gratification.
Our modern world is obsessed with instant gratification. We see highlight reels on social media, showcasing overnight “successes,” and we start to believe that we should achieve our goals quickly and easily. This is a dangerous lie. Real, lasting success is rarely instantaneous. It’s a journey, often a long and winding one, filled with challenges, failures, and moments of doubt. But it’s in those moments of struggle that we grow, learn, and become stronger. Don’t be discouraged by setbacks; they’re part of the process. Embrace the journey, celebrate small victories, and keep your eyes on the long-term goal.
Lie #4: Success means fame and fortune.
This lie equates success with external validation – the big house, the fancy car, the recognition of others. While these things might be a by-product of success in some cases, they are not the definition of it. True success is deeply personal. It’s about achieving your own goals, living a life that aligns with your values, and making a positive impact on the world around you. It’s about finding fulfillment and purpose in what you do. Define success on your own terms, not based on societal expectations.
Lie #5: God cannot help you because you are too sinful
That is another lie. You see, the word of God says, “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us”(Romans 5.8). Don’t forget the role of God in your success. Do not walk alone on this journey. God wants to be your constant companion, your source of strength, and your biggest cheerleader. Lean on Him for guidance, courage, and perseverance. Pray for wisdom and discernment. Trust in His plan for your life. Remember the verse: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13). This is not just a sentiment; it’s a promise.
So, how do we combat these lies and embrace the truth that success is possible?
Identify your own lies: What negative thoughts are holding you back? What limiting beliefs are you clinging to? Write them down and challenge them.
Define your own success: What does success mean to you? What are your values and passions? Set goals that align with your personal definition of success.
Focus on the process, not just the outcome: Enjoy the journey, celebrate small wins, and learn from your mistakes. Don’t get discouraged by setbacks; they are opportunities for growth.
Surround yourself with positive influences: Seek out mentors, role models, and supportive friends who believe in you and your dreams.
Take action: Dreaming is important, but it’s not enough. Break down your goals into smaller, manageable steps, and take consistent action, even if it’s just a small step each day.
My friend, you have the potential for greatness within you. Don’t let the lies of the world or the whispers of doubt hold you back. Success is not a distant dream; it’s a journey you can embark on today.
Conclusion:
My friend, don’t accept the lie that success is beyond your reach.
Define success on your own terms, replace negative thoughts with truth, take consistent action, and lean on God for guidance and strength. The journey won’t always be easy, but it will be worth it. Embrace the process, work hard, persevere, celebrate your wins, and never give up on your dreams. Your success story is waiting to be written. Go out there and make it happen!
Success is possible. Believe it. Live it. And let God guide you in every step of the way.
OYIBU COLLINS
CEO, COGITAL